Arguments for the existence of God

Skeptics Welcome · A Cumulative Case

Does God
Exist?

Seventeen lines of evidence, three major objections, and one compelling conclusion

Cosmology · Fine-Tuning · Morality · Consciousness · Biology · Mathematics · Philosophy

The question of God's existence is arguably the most important question a human being can ask. It touches everything: meaning, morality, purpose, and what happens when we die. Many people assume that modern science has settled the matter — that educated people simply don't believe anymore. The evidence tells a different story.

What follows is not a single proof but a cumulative case — seventeen distinct lines of evidence from cosmology, physics, biology, philosophy, and human experience. No single argument is decisive on its own. Together, they form a picture that many serious thinkers — including former atheists — have found compelling enough to change their minds.

We also take the objections seriously. The multiverse, the problem of evil, and neuroscience deserve honest engagement — and they get it here.

The Universe & Physics

Arguments from cosmology, fine-tuning, and the mathematical structure of reality

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Cosmological

The Kalam Cosmological Argument

The universe had an absolute beginning approximately 13.8 billion years ago — confirmed by the Big Bang, the second law of thermodynamics, and the Borde–Guth–Vilenkin theorem, which shows that any expanding universe must have had a beginning. Everything that begins to exist has a cause. The universe began to exist. Therefore, the universe has a cause.

That cause must be outside of time, space, matter, and energy — since it created all of those things. It must be immensely powerful. And the only kind of thing that fits this description is a mind. As philosopher William Lane Craig argues, this is the classical definition of God.

"Everything that begins to exist has a cause. The universe began to exist. Therefore, the universe has a cause." — William Lane Craig, Reasonable Faith
Common objection "The universe could have come from nothing via quantum mechanics." But 'nothing' in quantum physics is not metaphysical nothing — it is a quantum vacuum, which is something with properties and laws. The Kalam concerns the cause of everything, including the vacuum.
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Fine-Tuning

The Fine-Tuning of the Universe

More than thirty physical constants — the gravitational constant, the cosmological constant, the strong nuclear force, the proton-to-electron mass ratio — must be exquisitely precise for any life to exist. The cosmological constant is fine-tuned to one part in 10120. If the strong nuclear force were slightly different, atoms couldn't form. If gravity were slightly stronger, stars would burn out too fast for life to develop.

There are three explanations: physical necessity (no evidence), chance (the numbers make this essentially impossible), or design. Astronomer Fred Hoyle — a lifelong atheist — reluctantly concluded the design inference was unavoidable after discovering the fine-tuned carbon resonance level that makes life in stars possible.

"A commonsense interpretation of the facts suggests that a superintellect has monkeyed with physics… The numbers one calculates from the facts seem to me so overwhelming as to put this conclusion almost beyond question." — Fred Hoyle, Annual Review of Astronomy and Astrophysics, 1982
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Mathematical Beauty

The Unreasonable Effectiveness of Mathematics

Physicist Eugene Wigner called it a miracle: mathematics, developed by humans for purely abstract reasons, turns out to perfectly describe physical reality. James Clerk Maxwell's equations for electromagnetism — written for theoretical reasons — predicted radio waves decades before they were discovered. Riemann's abstract geometry became the language of Einstein's General Relativity. The universe is not just comprehensible — it is mathematically elegant.

On atheism, this is a profound coincidence. On theism, it is exactly what you would expect: a rational Creator made a rationally accessible universe.

"The miracle of the appropriateness of the language of mathematics for the formulation of the laws of physics is a wonderful gift which we neither understand nor deserve." — Eugene Wigner, 1960
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It seems as though somebody has fine-tuned nature's numbers to make the Universe. The impression of design is overwhelming.
Paul Davies — Physicist & Templeton Laureate (The Cosmic Blueprint, 1988)

Life & Biology

Arguments from the origin of life, DNA, the fossil record, and biological systems

05
Origin of Life / DNA

The Information Enigma: DNA

DNA encodes approximately 3.2 billion base pairs of functionally specified digital information — the most dense information storage known to science. The probability of a functional 150-amino-acid protein arising by chance is approximately 1 in 10164 (Douglas Axe, 2004). No undirected chemical process has been shown to generate even a single functional protein from scratch.

Information, in every example we know, comes from minds. Antony Flew — for fifty years the world's most influential philosophical atheist — changed his position specifically because of the DNA evidence, describing it as showing beyond reasonable doubt that a creative intelligence was involved.

"I now believe there is a God. The DNA investigations have shown, by the almost unbelievable complexity of the arrangements needed to produce life, that intelligence must have been involved." — Antony Flew, There Is a God (2007)
06
Paleontology

The Cambrian Explosion: Biology's Big Bang

Around 540 million years ago, virtually all major animal body plans appeared abruptly in the fossil record within 5–10 million years — an eyeblink in geological time. The Burgess Shale and Chengjiang biota show fully-formed complex eyes, nervous systems, and body plans with no clear evolutionary precursors. Even Stephen Jay Gould, no friend of intelligent design, called this "the most remarkable and puzzling event in the history of life."

Darwinian mechanisms require gradual transitions. The Cambrian explosion shows the opposite: the sudden appearance of massive amounts of new, coordinated genetic information that paleontologist Charles Marshall admits remains unexplained.

07
Molecular Biology

Irreducible Complexity

Biochemist Michael Behe identified a class of biological systems — irreducibly complex systems — that require multiple interdependent parts to function, such that removing any one part destroys the function entirely. The bacterial flagellum, a nano-scale rotary motor, has 40 distinct protein components. Remove any one and the motor fails completely. Darwin himself acknowledged: "If it could be demonstrated that any complex organ existed which could not possibly have been formed by numerous, successive, slight modifications, my theory would absolutely break down."

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Genomics

The Human Genome: A Digital Library

The human genome contains roughly 3.2 billion base pairs encoding around 20,000 protein-coding genes, plus vast regulatory networks. The 2012 ENCODE project revealed that approximately 80% of the genome has functional activity — largely refuting the earlier dismissal of most DNA as "junk." Bill Gates observed: "DNA is like a computer program, but far, far more advanced than any software ever created." The genome is read, error-checked, and repaired by machinery that presupposes the very information it maintains.

Mind, Morality & Meaning

Arguments from consciousness, reason, moral reality, and human experience

03
Philosophy

The Moral Argument

Most people — atheists included — believe that some things are genuinely wrong: torturing children for entertainment, genocide, slavery. Not just culturally inconvenient, but actually wrong. This is moral realism — the view that objective moral facts exist. But objective moral values require a foundation beyond human opinion or evolutionary preference. If there is no God, what makes anything truly, objectively obligatory?

C.S. Lewis, once a convinced atheist, found this argument decisive. His own sense of injustice — his argument against God — turned on itself when he noticed that having a concept of injustice requires having a concept of justice. You can't call a line crooked unless you have some idea of a straight line.

"My argument against God was that the universe seemed so cruel and unjust. But how had I got this idea of just and unjust? A man does not call a line crooked unless he has some idea of a straight line." — C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity (1952)
04
Philosophy of Mind

The Argument from Consciousness

Why is there subjective experience at all? Philosopher David Chalmers — an atheist — calls this the "Hard Problem" of consciousness: the most vexing unsolved problem in philosophy of mind. Why isn't all brain processing done "in the dark," without any felt inner life? Materialism has no good answer. Panpsychism (attributing experience to all matter) is deeply counterintuitive and faces its own fatal problems.

Theism offers a natural explanation: consciousness exists because the fundamental reality is itself a mind. God is not a physical object who happened to become conscious; he is the consciousness from which everything else derives.

09
Reason & Mind

The Argument from Reason

C.S. Lewis identified a devastating problem for naturalism: if our minds are the product of entirely irrational, undirected physical processes — if "thought" is just atoms in the skull arranging themselves — then we have no reason to trust our reasoning. Natural selection selects for survival-useful behaviors, not for true beliefs. But if we can't trust our reasoning, we can't trust the reasoning that leads to naturalism. The worldview defeats itself.

"If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world." — C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity (1952)
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Anthropology

Universal Religious Intuition

Every known human culture throughout history has developed religious belief and practice. Cognitive scientists Justin Barrett and Pascal Boyer have shown that humans possess a near-universal "agency detection" faculty — we intuitively perceive minds behind events. This cross-cultural, cross-historical universality demands explanation. Is it mass delusion across all of human history? Or sensitivity to something real?

The desire for the transcendent — for meaning, justice, and something beyond death — is not a quirk of one culture. It is the human condition. As G.K. Chesterton observed: "If there were no God, there would be no atheists."

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Aesthetics

The Argument from Beauty

Humans respond to beauty in music, mathematics, literature, and nature — often moved to awe that goes far beyond any survival utility. Why does a sunset move us to silence? Why does Bach's Mass in B minor produce something that feels like it is pointing beyond itself? Evolution can explain a preference for symmetrical faces (reproductive fitness). It cannot explain the experience of the sublime.

On theism, beauty is an echo of the Creator's own character — we are made in the image of One who is beautiful and good. The longing that great art produces is real and points beyond the material world.

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There is superficial conflict but deep concord between science and theistic religion, but superficial concord and deep conflict between science and naturalism.
Alvin Plantinga — Philosopher, Notre Dame · Templeton Prize 2017 (Where the Conflict Really Lies, 2011)

Taking the Objections Seriously

Honest engagement with the strongest arguments against theism

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Objection

The Multiverse Explains Fine-Tuning

"If there are infinitely many universes with varying constants, it's inevitable that some will permit life. We simply find ourselves in one that does."

This is a serious objection that deserves a serious response. Three problems: First, there is currently no empirical evidence for other universes — making the multiverse an unfalsifiable hypothesis, arguably outside the bounds of science by Karl Popper's criterion. Second, the multiverse itself requires fine-tuned laws to generate universes at all; the problem regresses. Third, the Boltzmann Brain problem: random fluctuations in an eternal multiverse would produce lone conscious observers far more often than ordered universes — making our ordered experience deeply improbable.

Physicist Paul Davies, who is not a theist, nevertheless concludes: "Theories that predict multiverses must themselves be fine-tuned."

14
Objection

The Problem of Evil

"An all-powerful, all-knowing, perfectly good God would eliminate all evil and suffering. Evil exists. Therefore God does not."

This is the most emotionally powerful objection, and it deserves more than a clever argument. At the personal level, suffering is real and the pastoral response matters more than the philosophical one. At the philosophical level, philosopher Alvin Plantinga demonstrated that God cannot create genuinely free beings and simultaneously guarantee they always choose good — that is a logical contradiction. Free will requires the real possibility of evil.

Theologian John Hick's "soul-making" theodicy adds that moral virtues like courage, compassion, and perseverance can only develop in a world with real challenges. A world without suffering would also be a world without heroism, depth, or meaningful love.

Importantly, the existence of suffering does not constitute a logical disproof of God. What it creates is the pastoral question — which every serious theistic tradition takes with great seriousness.

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Objection

Religion Is Just Brain Chemistry

"God-experiences are produced by temporal lobe activity, dopamine responses, and other neurological events — no supernatural explanation is needed."

This commits what logicians call the genetic fallacy: explaining the mechanism of a belief does not address whether that belief is true. Mathematical reasoning is also "just" neurons firing — this doesn't mean that 2+2=4 is false. If God exists and designed the brain, we would expect the brain to have a faculty capable of perceiving him. As Alvin Plantinga puts it: "The fact that our brains can detect God no more disproves God than the fact that our eyes can detect light disproves the existence of light."

"The fact that our brains can detect God no more disproves God than the fact that our eyes can detect light disproves the existence of light." — Alvin Plantinga
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Objection

Science Has Replaced God

"As science explains more, the God hypothesis becomes less necessary. Religion and science are fundamentally in conflict."

The "warfare thesis" — the idea that science and religion have been in perpetual conflict — was invented in the 1890s by two ideologically motivated writers and has been thoroughly refuted by historians of science. The list of devout theists who made foundational scientific contributions is long: Newton (mechanics), Mendel (genetics), Faraday (electromagnetism), Pasteur (microbiology), Lemaître (Big Bang cosmology), Collins (Human Genome Project).

More fundamentally, theism provides the philosophical foundation for science itself: a rational God made a rational, law-governed, mathematically structured universe — one that rewards investigation. As Oxford mathematician John Lennox argues, science and Christianity are not competitors; they are natural partners.

Frank Tipler, Professor of Mathematical Physics at Tulane, put it bluntly: "When I began my career I was a convinced atheist. I have been forced into my conclusions by the inexorable logic of my own branch of physics."

The Cumulative Case

No single argument here is a knockdown proof. That is not how the best reasoning works. What we have is a web of converging considerations — each pointing in the same direction, each independently supporting the others.

Universe had a beginning → needs a cause
Constants are fine-tuned → design is the best inference
Life requires specified information → information comes from minds
Cambrian explosion → sudden appearance of complex life
Irreducible complexity → systems that can't evolve gradually
Consciousness & reason → require grounding beyond matter
Objective morality → requires a transcendent foundation
Mathematical elegance → rational universe needs rational Creator
Universal religious intuition → pointing beyond the physical
Desire for the transcendent → made for another world

The best explanation across all these domains — the simplest, most coherent hypothesis that unifies the most evidence — is a personal, transcendent, rational, morally perfect Creator. What the great philosophical and theological traditions call God.

"There is a coherent and attractively simple explanation… theism. What is striking is that when we consider these features together, the probability of the truth of theism is high." — Richard Swinburne, The Existence of God

Follow the Evidence

This is an invitation, not a verdict. None of us comes to the biggest questions with a perfectly clean slate. But the evidence outlined here is real, the thinkers cited are serious, and the arguments deserve honest engagement.

Former atheists like Antony Flew, C.S. Lewis, Francis Collins, and Alister McGrath did not abandon reason when they changed their minds. They followed it.

The question is open. The evidence is on the table.

"You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart."

— Jeremiah 29:13
Skeptics Welcome

Key sources: Craig · Collins · Plantinga · Behe · Meyer · Lewis · Flew · Swinburne · Lennox · Keller · McGrath

Love God / Love People? …Not exactly

Did Jesus really say to just “Love God and love others?” Not exactly. There’s nuance we often miss when we try to boil faith down to pithy little statements. Jesus didn’t just say “love God.” He said “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. Matthew 22:37-38 ESV

He’s quoting Deuteronomy  6 almost verbatim. “Love God” doesn’t cary the same weight as “Love God with all your heart soul and mind.” This is a tall order and we haven’t even gotten to “Love your neighbor AS YOURSELF.” emphasis mine. I spent quite a bit of time unpacking the differences Sunday. As I shared the message I explained I couldn’t fit everything in to a 29 minute message on a Sunday morning. I promised to expand some more ways we can know we are loving God the way he prescribed. Here are a few additional characteristics of loving God.

Seeking our happiness in God

We are constantly bombarded with opportunities to rely on things people and places for happiness. It’s a near constant temptation to believe we’d be happy if we had, lived, or loved some thing, place or person. God invites us to determine to find happiness in Him as He is unchanging. The Psalms are full of expressions of happiness found in God and God alone. He is our refuge, strength and also our source of joy. As we mature we realize that seeking happiness should be a focused effort on the Lord and His presence. He alone can sustain the weight of true lasting pleasure.

Thirsting for a fuller enjoyment of God

Again love is a wonderful illustration of this. When we love someone we long to be with them more. We long to enjoy more experiences alongside them. Simply put, we long to enjoy them more and more, not less. We find a deep abiding desire to grow in the relationship and it’s accompanying pleasures. Love for God exhibits the same behaviors. We are never satisfied with “enough” of the Lord. We seek to know Him more intimately, experience hIm more powerfully and enjoy Him more fully.

As usual I’m piggybacking off smarter authors, writers and leaders than myself. Dr Allan Brown wrote this article that articulates these and much of what I shared Sunday morning in a better way than I could. I hope these writings and anything of value i shared Sunday encourage you as you endeavor to love God with all your heart soul and mind and love your neighbor as yourself.

Forgivness isn't optional for the believer

Sunday Pastor preached a message on Forgiveness. Find the message here.

Here’s an overview of the message

Forgiveness Isn’t Optional

Same God Part 6

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
Ephesians 4:32

🔄 A Shift from Anger to Action

Last week, we wrestled with the weight of anger and saw its fallout. This week, we’re turning the page—focusing on the freedom found in forgiveness.

In a world that glorifies revenge and champions payback, God calls His people to live differently. Forgiveness isn’t optional—it’s essential for those who follow Christ.

🧠 Make Room for Forgiveness

Ephesians 4 repeats the rhythm of “put off” and “put on.”
We can't make room to forgive until we've cleared out the bitterness, wrath, and slander clogging our hearts.

“Let all bitterness and wrath and anger… be put away from you.” (Ephesians 4:31)

Forgiveness requires space. It begins with surrender.

✝️ Forgiveness Imitates Christ

Forgiveness isn’t just about peace with others—it’s about imitating Jesus.
Ephesians 5:1-2 urges us:

“Be imitators of God… and walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us…”

While culture tells us to get even, Christ tells us to lay it down.
True discipleship looks like choosing mercy when revenge feels easier.

💔 Forgiveness Will Cost You—But Bitterness Will Cost You More

Forgiveness always involves a cost: our pride, our desire for justice, our “right” to be angry.
But bitterness costs us our peace, our relationship with God, and often, the very people we love.

“This is about my relationship with God as much or more than it’s about my relationship with those who offended me.”

🧭 Forgiveness Is Intentional

Forgiveness is more than a feeling—it’s a deliberate decision. It flows from a heart shaped by Christ.

Thomas Watson described forgiveness in seven intentional acts:

  1. Resisting revenge

  2. Not returning evil for evil

  3. Wishing them well

  4. Grieving their pain

  5. Praying for their good

  6. Seeking reconciliation when possible

  7. Helping them in distress

This isn’t weakness. It’s the deepest strength.

📖 Forgiveness Is Required

Paul reminds us again in Colossians 3:12–13:

“As the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.”

And Jesus himself made it unmistakably clear in Matthew 6:14–15:

“If you forgive others… your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
But if you do not forgive others… neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”

Forgiveness isn’t a suggestion—it’s a command.

❤️ The Heart of the Father

One of the most powerful forgiveness stories comes from a father and son in Spain. After years of estrangement, the father placed an ad in a Madrid newspaper:

“Dear Paco, meet me in front of this newspaper office at noon on Saturday. All is forgiven. I love you. Your Father.”

That Saturday, 800 men named Paco showed up—hoping to receive forgiveness and love from their father.

The world is desperate for that kind of grace.

🙏 Final Reflection

Forgiveness is hard. But it’s holy.
It heals us. Frees us. Reflects the very heart of God.

This week, ask yourself:

Who do I need to forgive—so I can walk in the freedom Christ has given me?

Let’s be known as people who are:
💛 Kind
💛 Tenderhearted
💛 Forgiving—just as God in Christ forgave us.

How to Spot a False Teacher

When everyone claims that truth is relative can you discern what is actually true? Today many false teachers twist scripture and prey upon people’s naivety and gullibility. Are you able to discern when someone is teaching truth vs error?

In our current series we are studying II Peter. In his second letter Peter reminds the believers to beware false teachers who are creeping in with heresies. Pastor Brian did an excellent job in this message pointing out that the original Greek word for heresies literally translated “divisions.” He outlined a few key areas that false teachers reveal their true intentions. Pastor Kevin preached a follow-up message outlining three specific ways the II Peter 2 says we can spot false teachers.

  • They defy authority (verse 10) — verse 1: they deny “the Master who bought them” (also verses 12–13 and 18).

  • They’re given to sensuality, which typically means sexual sin — verse 2: “many will follow their sensuality” (also verses 10, 12–14, and 19).

  • They are marked by greed, for money and material gain — verse 3: “in their greed they will exploit you” (also verses 14–15).

If a church or ministry begins watering down the understood Biblical boundaries regarding sex, power or money it’s usually because someone in power has a desire to embrace sexual sin, greed or unfettered power.
— Pastor Marc

Let’s discuss how each of these 3 dangerous concepts creep into and disrupt the church. I’ll list them in order of deceptiveness.

Level 1 Sexual Sin I believe it’s fairly easy to spot when a leader or ministry begins embracing sexual sin. Their teaching or public facing ministry will begin taking exception with God’s instructions in the Word regarding sex inside a marriage between one man and one woman. They’ll do their best to somehow say that 2,000 years of understood church history is all wrong and they now have an enlightened understanding of human sexuality. All the while they miss that every single culture that embraced and encouraged sexual perversion collapsed soon after. God’s Word is given to us for human flourishing. Sex inside marriage is good for husband and wife. It’s a healthy whole home for children. In 2025 you can spot destructive false teachers in the area of sexuality the easiest because there is often flag flying and virtue signaling. If a leader is willing to look at clear biblical instruction and work around it in the area of sexuality nothing is off the table. It won’t be long until any and every doctrine is on the chopping block. This is why so many progressive denominations find themselves empty shells of what they once were. First they embraced sexual sin. Then doctinres of eternal punishment, salvation, divinity of Christ and others were up for debate. In their error they assumed everyone would flock to these open minded “churches.” In reality humans understand that not everything is a gray area and if there is truth it informs all of life. People aren’t inspired by a God who looks the other way at every one of their pet sins. It’s juvenile and serious humans can see right through it.

Level 2 Greed I consider this a bit harder to discern only because we (in the west) are swimming in an ocean of money informed culture. Money is so central to our lives and necessary that we often can’t discern when our hearts move from using money to the danger of loving money. It’s especially difficult in light of our culture’s all out worship of money and business. There isn’t an area of our lives that hasn’t been shaped by money. The food industry, healthcare industry, and even our churches have largely been influenced over the last 50 years by money. Money isn’t moral or immoral, but the love of money leads to all kinds of sin. When a false teacher is given to greed it won’t be long until you can spot it in their lifestyle and expression. More and more of their messages and teaching will be on money because it’s what their heart is set on. They’ll correctly state that the Bible celebrates wealth in many passages (it does). They’ll downplay the passages that warn against the dangers of money. Effectively they’ll cherry pick passages to tell everyone that God’s number now concern is making his true followers wealthy. If your aim is to become wealthy by getting into ministry you’re either misinformed (there are much easier ways to generate wealth in the marketplace) or willing to cross lines and harm others for personal gain. Both reveal a level of arrogance and short sightedness common to false teachers. I’ll say it more blunlty. False teachers are idiots.

Level 3 Power It’s really difficult to know when someone is driven by power, but it’s not hard to spot when someone refuses to submit. I’m afraid many of our churches have allowed best business practices, CEO mindsets and straight up narcissistic tendencies to inform how we lead in our congregations. It’s so subtle, but when we allow culture to dictate how we manage church affairs instead of scripture there will always be consequences. The New Testament is a bit open ended on the final form of church government (which is why so many denominations and associations utilize different forms). This is on purpose by the way. The church needs to function in all kinds of cultures throughout all kinds of seasons. However the New Testament is abundantly clear about the functions and character of those who lead in the church. There’s a universal call to submit to God and one another throughout. We don’t have any indication that any leader was above accountability or enjoyed absolute control. I say this as a pastor who does his best to employ best practices and streamline decisions, but narcissism and pride are always temptations. We must have guardrails for the church and it’s leaders. A false teacher can be known by their refusal to submit to anyone or anything. In our church there are people who’ve been gifted and equipped but refused to submit to another leader, staff member or pastor. Whenever that is spotted the individual is immediately taken out of leadership and disciplined. As a pastor I have overseeers outside out church, elders inside, mentors in my life and trusted pastors on our staff that I regularly submit to. I’m not an island. We don’t need more type A’s walking around commanding influence. It’s attractive at first but usually results in harm, abuse and empty achievements.

We need more shepherds guiding and guarding the flock who see their own frailty as fallen sinners capable of abusing power.
— Pastor Marc

I love how Pastor Kevin closed his message with the analogy of protecting his home. He emphasized that he wasn’t called to find every criminal and punish them. However, he would protect his home from anyone who comes in to do harm. Our church has no intention of figuring out how to call out every false prophet or teacher out there. We will protect our local church and its congregants best we can. This is one of the primary reasons we are focusing more attention than ever on raising up and training godly men to lead and shepherd well.


The Christian and Money

Sunday I preached the first message in our series “Money and the Christian.” You can watch the message here. In the message I laid out some basic principles from Jesus’ teachings and Paul’s letters. I mentioned some practical tips briefly Sunday and I’ll dig deeper on those in the bottom half of this post. To start, here’s the vision Jesus has for money:


MONEY IS A USEFUL TOOL, BUT A TERRIBLE GOD. Jesus and Paul warn about the dangers inherent with money. The bible doesn’t condemn or condone welsh. In some passages the abundance and wealth are celebrated when God blesses His people. In other passages and parables the hazards of wealth are clearly laid out. Money isn’t the issue, what it can do t our heart is the issue.


GRACE IS HARD TO UNDERSTAND IN A TRANSACTIONAL CULTURE. One of the dangers of wealth is pride. Wealth convinces us we’ve earned everything and anything can be purchased. The gospel is specially hard for the rich because it isn’t a transaction. We can’t earn this love or forgiveness.


HOW WE STEWARD TREASURE HERE IS HOW WE LAY UP TREASURE THERE. Jesus lays out a vision for laying up treasure in heaven in Matthew 6 and Paul picks that theme up in I Timothy 6 . Paul instructs the wealthy to use their wealth to be rich in good works, generous and ready to share.



Practical tips when it comes to money

1 You Need a Budget

I know that inflation has made this harder, but the truth is: living below our means is never easy. It requires diligence and sacrifice. I once heard Tim Keller say in this powerful message that Xians are called to refuse the temptation to let their wealth determine their lifestyle. Instead they’re constantly living at the lower end of what their income could afford for the purpose of making generosity prominent in their lives. This is only possible with a realistic budget. Here’s a great resource on budgeting that gives an overview and has a budget you can input your numbers to get started.

2 Your Budget Needs Margins

Most people want to be generous, but feel strapped because lifestyle creep has robbed them of any margins.

Margins don’t just happen, they’re planned. What used to be a luxury, but now feels like a necessity? The moment we allow wants to become needs we kill margin.

Here are 3 margin killers

  • Meals: Remember when eating out was a luxury? Over time we get used to the convenience and speed of just ordering to go or driving thru to get our meals. Our family eats home cooked meals most evenings and mornings. If we eat out it’ll be Friday night or Sunday afternoon. We budget for this. There have been busy seasons where we’ve leaned on restaurants and fast food. Every time we end up spending 2-3x as much for lower quality food. I know there are seasons of life that are busy, but cooking and eating real whole foods at home is better for your budget and your health.

  • Vehicles: Our cars are one of our largest line item expenses in our budget. Often we just think about the car payment as the cost of owning a car. There’s insurance, gas, maintenance, etc. We’ve never had more than one car payment and that’s been on purpose. We always wait until one car is paid off to consider buying another. This forces us to be patient. We’ve also never spent what we were qualified for (goes back to lifestyle creep). Just because you can afford it doesn’t mean you need it. Dealerships shouldn’t determine how much car you can afford, your budget and spending goals should. We also research how much any vehicle will cost to insure. My daily driver is a small Honda that gets 46mpg. The temptation is often to purchase the most car we can afford because a coworker or friend got one and now we need one too. I am often tempted to buy a new truck, but our 1998 s-10 just refuses to die. As a result of delayed gratification, we can be generous, save for the future and rest easy in the area of finances.

  • Random Purchases Retail therapy is real. We feel down or off and think, “I bet a new outfit, shoes or device would make me feel better!” And it does… for a while. When you’re living below your means you know you can do this occasionally, which makes it a constant temptation. I once heard it said that women splurge in several small shopping trips over time and men in one large purchase. Think the lady who constantly spends 100’s of dollars here or there but never in one huge shopping trip. Now picture the man who’s been pretty conservative fiscally, but comes home one day with a new truck, motorcycle, rv, or boat. There’s no remedy like the emptiness of dealing with the consequences of these spending episodes. It takes time and commitment.

3 You Need a Generosity Plan

Have you prayed about how much and where you’re going to be generous? Casie and I have always tithed and we automate that portion of our giving. Every week it comes out of our account via online giving. I’m for regular, disciplined giving, but we also want to be spontaneous in our giving. So when we give to missions, benevolence, or a major endeavor at church, we pray and consider how much to give and do it on a Sunday either by check or a one time gift online. We don’t want our giving to become mechanical or lazy. Our church operates the same way. Each month there are regular donations from our church to missionaries around the world, non-profits in our community and church planters around the nation. However, we also respond to needs as they arise. Our church gives to benevolence needs inside our church regularly. At the end of every year we’ve given single moms in our church a few hundred dollars to help with Christmas for their kids. Generosity has to be more than aspirational. It must be built into our budget and our lifestyle.


Holding on to hope when everything hurts

Hope is one of the most powerful ingredients in our lives. The minute we lose hope, everything begins to unravel. Without hope our lives are dark shadows of what they could be. When hope is lost men turn to destructive vices or even willful self-destruction. Hope is what we need when everything around is seems hopeless. The good news is you and I aren’t the first (and won’t be the last) to face hard or even hopeless scenarios in life.

Peter wrote a letter to new believers who were being persecuted of their faith. Before following Jesus their lives were simple and straightforward but also hopeless. They weren’t persecuted but they also weren’t hopeful about the future. For most of human history hope wasn’t much of an option. Famine, starvation, slavery, and oppression of all sorts was the norm. People just lived, reproduced and died. Then the gospel of Jesus showed up and said there’s more to life than this present suffering. Now they had a hope for the future a hope for eternity. Yet now they also encountered persecution from the state and the culture at large.

In his first few remarks Peter emphasizes the hope that they (and every believer) enjoy.

I Peter 1:3: Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.

Don’t miss that living part. Our hope is alive and well. The world is full of dead hopes. My childhood hope to one day play in the NBA is very much dead. Forgive me, but hopes that people had in JFK to fix our nation died in Dallas. The hopes that millions of people placed in random investments that were supposed to make them rich, well you get it. Hope in Jesus by contrast won’t die. Peter was reminding them that their hope grew even though many of them were being systematically oppressed and killed. Rome thought it could kill these believers hope by killing them, but Rome would die before their hope could ever be killed. Why? Because their hope wasn’t tied to their life, but a living Jesus who was resurrected.

“The Resurrection is the supreme vindication of Jesus’ divine identity and his inspired teaching. It’s the proof of his triumph over sin and death. It’s the foreshadowing of the resurrection of his followers. It’s the basis of Christian hope. It’s the miracle of all miracles.”
— Lee Strobel


The good news is we have a living hope. So my question is simple. What’s the basis for your hope? Your health will fail. My money will run out. Our government will let us down. Jesus is alive and His resurrection is the basis for a hope that won’t die.

"Optimism is a wish without warrant; Christian hope is a certainty, guaranteed by God himself. Optimism reflects ignorance as to whether good things will ever actually come. Christian hope expresses knowledge that every day of his life, and every moment beyond it, the believer can say with truth, on the basis of God's own commitment, that the best is yet to come." ~ J. I. Packer



Do Christians have to tithe?

In my message “why does Jesus care about my money” Sunday I mentioned tithing, giving and generosity. You can watch the message here. I was raised in a culture of tithing. From the beginning my wife and I have been careful to tithe on our income. This was often difficult early on as we struggled to make a living, yet God was faithful. Over the course of my ministry I’ve had many conversations with believers about the tithe. Often, believers will say the tithe was an Old Testament requirement that doesn’t carry over to the New Testament. There are certainly portions of the Mosaic Law that don’t apply to New testament believers. Consider Paul reminding gentiles they didn’t need to be circumcised or Peter’s vision allowing the consumption of meats once deemed unclean. However, giving certainly carried over to the new covenant and if anything seemed to increase. Early church documents indicate tithing was the floor for believers not the ceiling. The debate rages on as to whether or not tithing is required.

Each believer needs to reconcile the evidence and come to terms with what generosity should look like. We shouldn’t just trust our heart to make the decision. typically our hearts are greedy and stingy when it comes to giving. I’ll link a few opposing articles, some in favor of the tithe, some against, then I’ll share my understanding in light of it. Each article makes clear that regardless of tithing or not generosity is explicitly called out of believers.


Here are 4 articles with differing views on the subject.

Article One

Article Two

Article Three

Article Four


Here are a few reasons I practice tithing and encourage it in our church.

Tithing is a biblical principle.

I do believe the biblical principle carries over into the New Testament. The command not to murder is made stronger by Jesus condemning hatred in our heart. The command not to commit adultery is made stronger by Jesus equating lust with adultery. To read the new testament and conclude that our calling as believers is easier than the old testament isn’t a serious understanding. In every way we are challenged to go beyond what the law required. To move beyond surface level obedience into deep abiding faithfulness. A tithe should inform us about God’s view of sacrifice. Left to our own considerations we tend to give far less than a tithe.

Tithing is a practical solution.

I am better with my money because I learned to tithe. Tithing forced me to save money to give, which helped me learn to save money in general. I learned the power of saving, living below my means, and giving. When Jesus said it’s more blessed to give than to receive He didn’t just mean it felt better (though it does). People who only know how to receive are more vulnerable. Those who know how to save, give and leverage money as a resource benefit from that understanding of money. Teaching people to give systematically forces them to confront their budget, their spending and their values.

Tithing is sacrificial.

The average believers gives between 2-3% to charity each year. That’s far below a tithe. We’d rarely choose 10% at random without the Word guiding us higher in our generosity. Whether you believe tithing carried over to the new Testament church or not there’s no argument that Jesus, Paul and the entire New Testament clearly calls out a form of generosity that is sacrificial and systematic over and over. I’m afraid many believers simply take the easy path of “tithing isn’t required” in order to justify their refusal to be generous. No matter your take on tithing there’s no escaping the fact that Jesus taught on money more than anything else and He calls out and required a level of generosity from his followers that was counter cultural. May we be found just as generous.



Why does God care if we worry?

Sunday I preached a message dealing with worry. Many mentioned how helpful discussing this has been. Let’s start with what we already know: worry is pretty pointless and powerless.

J. Arthur Rank (picture), an English executive, decided to do all his worrying on one day each week. He chose Wednesdays. When anything happened that gave him anxiety and annoyed his ulcer, he would write it down and put it in his worry box and forget about it until next Wednesday. The interesting thing was that on the following Wednesday when he opened his worry box, he found that most of the things that had disturbed him the past six days were already settled. It would have been useless to have worried about them.



What’s something you constantly worry about? Is it a sin to worry ? If so what do we do about it? Why does God care if I worry? I believe it’s a sin to clearly disobey a command from Jesus. He instructs us not to worry numerous times. Why does it matter? I believe it matters to God because worry reveals a lack of trust, a sneaking suspicion that God can’t or won’t care for us as well as we might hope to if we were in charge (control is a major factor). God also cares because a life filled with worry is completely opposed to the joy-filled trusting lifestyle Jesus died and rose to secure for us to enjoy. A believer overcome with worry is a terrible example and witness.



"Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow; it only saps today of its joy."

—Leo Buscaglia



Most of us are aware that most of our worries never come to pass, yet we persist in them. In the US here’s what most adults worry about:



  • 70% were anxious about keeping themselves or their families safe.

  • 68% were anxious about keeping their identity safe.

  • 66% were anxious about their health.

  • 65% were anxious about paying bills or expenses.

  • 59% were anxious about the impact of climate change on the planet.

  • 50% were anxious about the opioid epidemic.

  • 45% were anxious about the impact of emerging technology on day-to-day life.



Notice where worry begins: a desire for control mixed with fear of the unknown. In Matthew 6 Jesus will tell us not to worry. He also tells us not to lust, hate, envy, withhold forgiveness, yield to pride and we know we often fail in those areas. My point is Jesus takes for granted that we know not to give in to external sins like adultery, murder, and stealing. He takes it a step farther and tells us not to lust, hate or envy. Jesus point is to show us what we naturally do and then offer us a better way that leads to life, real life. We can’t help the circumstances that lend us toward worry, but we can choose how long we stay there or let our minds rest in worry instead of trust.

Here are some passages that deal directly with worry and anxiety:

PHILIPPIANS 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

ISAIAH 41:10 Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

I PETER 5:7 Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.

PROVERBS 12:25 Anxiety in a man's heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad.

MATTHEW 6:34 “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.


MATTHEW 6 is where I’d like to focus my attention.  Notice what Jesus said (MATTHEW 6:25) “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? 26 Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? 27 And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?

1. Worry is based on fear 

It may be based on fear of man, fear of lack,  fear of the future, fear of  loss, or fear of the unknown. This is why God often says FEAR NOT in the Word. Jesus’ remedy is to look to the birds. Which is so simple, yet powerful. Birds don’t work as hard or store their food like we do, yet they don’t lack. Jesus was saying these birds were exhibiting more faith in God than humans. What are you afraid of? Jesus even reminds us that worry doesn’t add life. We now know thanks to medicine and science that worry actually can shorten your life (see this study). 


MATTHEW 6:28-30  And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, 29 yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. 30 But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?

2. Worry reveals what I value 

Many of Jesus’ listeners (like us) were concerned with how they looked or were perceived by others. Worry about our appearance is common but pointless Jesus says. He points them to “lillies” but what lillies? According to John Chancellor, in his book The Flowers and Fruits of the Bible was the poppy anemone (picture below). The poppy anemone covers the ground with brilliant blossom in early spring. It is the most conspicuous of all spring flowers. Walking at this season in the Holy Land, among the olives and through fields of thisles and wild grass, I was often hit by an unexpected flash of red--it was the anemone, the "lily of the field" of our Lord's discourse. God gives us visual reminders not to worry, but we miss them because we are focusing on all the wrong things. When's the last time you listened to the birds and remembered the promises of God or strolled through a park and enjoyed the flowers and remembered the providence of God.

MATTHEW 6:31-34 31 Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. 34 “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble..

3. Worry is a waste of time.  

Jesus isn’t belittling our circumstance. In Matthew 8-9 (picture below) He spends time with 10 groups of people facing anxious circumstances. Jesus Himself would face death and pain head on. However He knew worry is wasted energy and the Kingdom is where our hearts should focus. Our worry often keeps us focused on self and Jesus wants to move the focus from us to God and serving others. There is so much kingdom work to do, but we often can’t se beyond what has us paralyzed in fear. Why does God care about my worry? It reveals my lack of trust in Him, it stagnates my spiritual growth and paralyzes my kingdom potential. 

When the enemy can’t sideline us with sin, he will settle for fear, doubt, or worry.

Take a walk. Trust in God. Remember His faithfulness. Trust in His promises.

How should a believer handle mental health?

Sunday I preached a message about the myths surrounding mental health. Today mental health is everywhere in the news. The National Institute of Mental Health is always sharing statistics and at the moment about 1 in 5 adults are dealing with mental health issues. Recent studies bare out that 1 in 20 adults have considered serious thoughts of suicide. This is an important topic that many of us try to tackle:

1 by ourselves 

2 usually equipped with a handful of bad ideas

3 while believing lies about mental health & how it does or doesn’t line up with faith

My goal: Lay out myths about mental health & use God’s Word to show you truths about your mind, God and his plan to renew our minds. Let’s start with truth, move to common myths, then end w/ truth.

What I’ve learned is that asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness it’s a sign of maturity.
— -Craig Groeschel

ISAIAH 26:3 You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.


God keeps those in peace who stay their mind on Him. Let’s look at some truth about ourselves and God.

1. You are more than your body

Our culture is body obsessed. Jesus reminds us we are more than flesh when He challenges us to love the Lord with all your heart, mind and soul. Body is part of us not all of us. Your brain is part of your body, but it affects your heart, mind and soul more deeply than your body. You are more than what you look like or do for a living.

2. You are more than your diagnosis 

Satan often tells us we are what we do. Lie and he calls you a liar forever. He’s the great accuser. If he can’t find sin, he’ll settle for sickness to use as leverage against your purpose and peace. He’ll say “You’re just a mess. What a problem you are, what a burden!” By the way: WE. ARE. ALL. BURDENS. …yet God forgives redeems and calls us to bear one another’s burdens

GALATIANS 6:2 Bear one another's burdens, & so fulfill the law of Christ.

3. Your mental health (good or bad) doesn’t change God’s redemptive nature.  

The Word tells us that our hearts are deceitful, but God is good and He longs to redeem us in spite of our hearts. His plan is deeper than saving our soul. He saves us and promises an eternity with resurrected bodies. God has a plan bigger than your physical or mental health. Nothing can get sepearet us from the Love of God.

I THESSALONIANS 5:23 Now may the God of peace himself sanctify you completely, & may your whole spirit & soul & body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. 24 He who calls you is faithful; he will surely do it.


Now, let’s discuss some commons myths believers latch onto surrounding mental health.

MYTH 1. REAL CHRISTIANS WON’T STRUGGLE WITH MENTAL HEALTH

  You may hear “Jesus saved you. You’re good. Stop feeling that way.” Jesus did save me but I still wear a seat belt, watch what I eat, go to the dr and wash my hands. I’m not negating the spiritual side of life. I want to point out that very spiritual people in God’s Word dealt with depression and mental health often. Jeremiah was a weeping prophet. David was in despair in the Psalms. Elijah was so depressed he asked God to die. Jonah too. 

Struggling with mental health doesn’t mean you’re a bad Christian, it means you’re human.
— Craig Groeschel

MYTH 2. IF A BELIEVER DOES HAVE ISSUES, ALL THEY NEED IS THE BIBLE AND PRAYER

You wouldn’t say that to someone who broke their arm. You wouldn’t offer someone the Bible or prayer if they were starving. Yes, there are spiritual aspects that affect our mental health, but we are physical beings too. I preach Bible reading and prayer every single week. Jesus modeled well how to navigate this dichotomy. When He was healing people everyone assumed everything was spiritual. They’d ask who’s sin caused this sickness. They assumed everything was a demon. Jesus would cast out demons when it was demonic or spiritual. Other times He’d just heal people indicating the issue was physical. Today our culture believes everything is physical and nothing is spiritual. Believers should model a both and approach. I go to the dr, but I pray too. I trust God, and I do my part (healthy eating, exercise).  But when we are sick emotionally, or mentally it’s not as clear what to do. When Elijah was suicidally depressed God told Elijah to take a nap and eat some cake. I love God’s advice. God knew he was exhausted. God didn’t chastise Elijah or tell him to go read some of the Law. He told him to rest and eat. 


MYTH 3. I CAN HANDLE THIS ON MY OWN  

In scripture we are told to rely on God and His people in our time of need. Counsel, therapy, mental health professionals, these aren’t off limits to believers. Just like hospitals, medicine and doctors aren’t. God often uses these places and people to help. Trust God to guide you to right counselor, dr, people. Don’t assume every “Christian” counselor is giving you solid advice. Filter everything through prayer and the Word of God.

“God is looking for those with whom He can do the impossible — what a pity that we plan only the things that we can do by ourselves.”
— A. W. Tozer

Now let’s observe 3 truths about God.

ISAIAH 26:3 You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.

JOHN 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

1. GOD CARES ABOUT YOUR MIND 

Long before it was popular God’s Word addressed the power of our minds in multiple passages. When common understanding said “toughen up, get over it, big deal” God’s Word indicated that our minds and feelings mattered to God. Other religions and cultures mocked the idea of gods caring about humans. The Bible inidcates that God CARES and is near the hurting.    

PSALM 34:17-19  When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears and delivers them out of all their troubles. 18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. 19 Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.

2. GOD USES PEOPLE WITH PROBLEMS

Peter had a temper. Samson was a womanizer. Martha was a busy bee. Thomas was a doubter. Moses had a stutter. Abraham was a liar. People have problems. Jesus died to save, redeem and use people with problems. You are no different. God knew what He was getting when He saved you and called you.                 

3. GOD OFFERS A PATH TOWARD PEACE OF MIND  

God’s plan is deeper than saving your soul. Scripture says He will redeem earth, save our soul, give us resurrected bodies etc. But Jesus also said to his disciples about to endure persecution that they could have peace here as they face an awful future physically.

JOHN 16:33 I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

Jesus was interested in helping his disciples have peace in world of storm heading their way. Many of us assume God just wants us to grin and bear it. God is interested in leading us to trust Him in such a way that we have a peace that passes understanding.

I THESSALONIANS 5:23 Now may the God of peace himself sanctify you completely, & may your whole spirit & soul & body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. 24 He who calls you is faithful; he will surely do it.


For more encouragement along these lines read this blog post at the Gospel Coalition.

10 great getaways for couples close to Coastal Virginia

We've been focusing our attention on improving marriages lately during the "Save the Date" series (watch/listen here). Many couples start drifting apart because they don’t spend enough intentional time together. We want to invest more time in marriage, but life is busy. Sometimes it's good just to get away alone together. One regular rhythm we try to model is getting away every 90 days for 2-3 nights without the kids. It doesn’t have to be far or expensive. The point is to get out of our regular space and spend time together.

Here are our top picks for close get-aways:

1. OBX NC

It’s only a 2 hour drive but a world away. Of course it’s crowded in the summer, but shoulder season (fall) is heavenly. We love driving on the 4x4 access beaches and watching the sunset on the sound. Walking the beach or just biking through town (we prefer smaller villages like Avon, Hatteras and Duck) is always our highlight.

2. Blue Ridge Mountains

This is actually my wife’s preferred destination. Whether we camp in Shenandoah or find an airbnb nearby this is where she loves to go in the fall. Hiking and scenic vistas abound in Virginia’s only National Park. We always make time to drive the blue ridge parkway too.

3. DC

We realized a few years ago it was cheaper and more relaxing to ride the train from Norfolk to Washington DC. We don’t have to find parking for our car or fight traffic for 3-4 hours. The scenic train ride is part of the experience. The wifi and snack car help too. Once we get to DC we typically stay within walking distance of the national mall or the Baseball stadium depending on what we plan to do.

4. Eastern Shore

The Chesapeake bay Bridge Tunnel toll is so expensive that the Eastern Shore remains relatively undeveloped and untouched by the busy lifestyle of Hampton Roads. Less than an hours drive away are beautiful empty beaches and small towns like Cape Charles right on the bay.

5. Richmond

Richmond has grown into a food scene over the years. There are numerous districts in Richmond proper and just outside the city known for quality restaurants and entertainment. We typically drive since it’s less than a 2 hour drive from our home. We try to visit when there’s a concert, play or comedian we want to see in one of Richmond’s historic theaters.

6. Williamsburg

Growing up I assumed everybody lived near an old town like Williamsburg. It was a regular field trip in school. As an adult we’ve realized how special Williamsburg can be. There’s the beauty of colonial Williamsburg, but also the shoppes and restaurants in downtown. History buffs will love it. Williamsburg is just 45-55 minutes from most of Hampton Roads. When we visit we typically try to visit a new restaurant (there are too many to choose from).

7. Smithfield, VA

Just up the road you’ll find an old downtown with a hotel and a waterfront hotel with a restaurant and marina. It’s a walkable small town full of charm. Perfect for a quick getaway. One of our favorite BBQ spots (Q Daddy’s) is close by too.

8. Local Hotels 

If you don’t feel like leaving town, consider booking an ocean front stay in Virginia Beach in the off season. Rooms at the Renaissance in Portsmouth have an incredible view of the Norfolk Skyline. Explore the beauty in our own backyard. Stay in a part of town you’ve never frequented. Many of our favorite restaurants are in Ghent. There’s a reason tourists head to our area each season. There’s much to do and see right here.

9. Edenton NC

Just over the state line you’ll find a charming small town full of old fashioned bed and breakfasts. The harbor is full of boats and restaurants. We enjoy walking around the historic homes in some of the oldest neighborhoods near the waterfront.

10. First Landing State Park

We love camping, but sometimes can’t get away away. First Landing (formerly Seashore State Park) is a great camping option nearby. You can walk to the bay from your campsite and watch the sunset. The sites are large and private. The restrooms are clean and close by as well. There are plenty of walking trails as well. They have recently added yurts if tent camping isn’t your thing.